Friday, 6 May 2016

#NEW CHAPTER ~ 9.

Sometimes the way you value you isn't the way others value you, if you could see yourself from someone else's eyes you'd value and think much more highly of yourself than you just seeing and being you.

Today's post is going to be slightly different, it isn't going to be a rant or about my past or anything like that, it's going to be about self love, self appreciation and most importantly happiness within yourself, so enjoy and don't forget to share! :)

Obviously if you've read previous posts, you'd know this subject is something I've struggled with for a mega long time and I still do, but what I've come to notice is that what comes with loving yourself is the jealousy of other people, and also I'd just like to point out there's a pretty big difference between loving who you are and what you're about, and being arrogant and overall a dick about it..

It's hard to build or attempt to build yourself back up to the person you were before you started feeling so low about yourself, it's a ever continuing daily struggle and I know many people blame society because there's trends that create perceptions of what we should look like, be like etc, but I personally feel like that's just bullshit.
 Yes of course there's certain things you can blame social media for but the real issue here is building your self confidence up so that if you see people post on instagram or any of that shit, you can't be like 'omg that's so goals' or 'i wish i looked like you' blah blah blah.. I see so many guys and girls comment on well known youtubers shit about that and it's so frustrating because on one person's page you'll comment how you wish you could be them but then on another's page you'll tell them they don't suit that or you think they look ugly.

Learn to love who you are because you can't change who you are inside. You can't change what your soul is, you're born with it and it stays with you til you die, and you gotta learn to love that too. Like for instance, let's have a paragraph of showing love to ourselves and the good bits an all that jazz, so here goes!!!

I love I speak up for what I believe in, it's weird but not many people have strong moral and one thing I've always relied on in EVERYTHING is my gut instinct so I know when something's off and I love that my soul is basically protecting me from bullshit.

I'm not entirely sure where I'm going with this post so I'll leave it at that..

Have a good evening
Ox